the body is a canvas - you're an artist not a labourer. whatever you are using, there are three variables that make the tool sing in different ways ….

it's a gradient not a cliff face - erogenous zones are sites on the body that contain highly dense concentrations of mechano receptors …..

you are the tool-kit

we've compiled a collection of tools to practice the art but it would be churlish not to agree that you're already carrying the equivalent of a swiss army knife …..

concentrate - you want your partner to concentrate completely on the sensations they are experiencing. you want them to feel immersed. stimulation can be pleasurable or objectionable depending on context, level of arousal and your partner’s receptiveness …..